Victoria and the boys

Victoria is enjoying school so much. She has lerned so much in the little time that she has been there. She knows all her letters and sounds and has started to blend letters to make words. She has 1 more year of pre-school before she starts Kindergarten and she will be reading before that time. She when first started school she would come home and tell me of a friend of hers. I would always ask her about her and then one day I asked her teacher about the child and the teacher told me there was not a child in her class by that name. Come to find out, Victoria had made up an imaginary friend to cope with a new setting. I asked her about the friend and she told me the truth...a few days later she said that she gave her friend to someone else who needed her and along came McKay. She started talking about this boy in her class. She told me that she loved him and that she kissed him on the cheek. I was having a heart attack and knew that if I told her Dad he would die. I talked to her teachers and they told me that McKay would follow her around and that it was cute. All I was thinking was this is my 3 year old little girl and she likes a boy who also likes her. I finally had to tell her that she did not love him but liked him a lot and that she could not kiss him anymore but just hug him. I ended up writing his mom a note and she wrote me one too on the same day. We got together for a play date and they are a wonderful family. McKay has a sister who was born 1 month after Elizabeth. We got together and had a play date at the Children's Museum at The Gateway. They are great friends and like to be around each other.

McKay and Vitoria

Victoria, McKay, Savannah and Elizabeth

The day that we got together with them I was told by Victoria that McKay and Joe were fighting over her. I was dying inside. I guess both boys wanted to stand by her in line and were pushing each other out of the way. Victoria came home one day sad becuase McKay did not want to be her friend anylonger or play with her. Louis was upset that a little boy had hurt his little girl. I got to the bottom of it and what happened was...it was cold outside and when Victoria runs around on cold days she coughs A LOT, so McKay wanted to play tag and she told him that she could not run so he went and found someone else to play with. I just died because she is so silly. Victoria has 4 little boys that like her and like to play with her. She does play with 1 or 2 girls but mainly boys. Louis and I are in trouble...she is not even 4 yet and already boys are fighting over her...what are we going to do?